Originally Posted By: JohnnyJohnson
Pet and kids don't fall far from the character of the keepers. I've always thought that pets reflect the character of their owners just like their kids do. I have seen many instances of this where I haven't missed the mark!
Bingo, bingo.
I live in a very liberal, "progressive" area where "let it all hang out" pervades. Your comment above definitely rings true: Owners, children, dogs. I've always believed that the behavior of any dog (or cat) says a lot about their owners.
Leash-free dog parks much in vogue here. Over time, the grass would disappear, poop would be everywhere, machismos show up with their equally aggressive dogs, which would "play" with other dogs as "prey".
"Can't we all just get along" would often result in the lesser dog needing stiches.
Then the signs would go up "scoup your poop" (aren't they always so elementary, simplistic, need to rhyme?), "poop harms the environment and poisons our precious waterways". The authoritarians rush in to tell their "morons" how to properly behave.
Reading previous comments indicates this area isn't unique.
Nearby neighbor who fits the above only has dogs of a single color. A few years back came home with a pound-puppy who is quite the escape "ar-teest", his chosen method to dig. Results being he was regularly out. Fortunately, he was a sweet dog. Unfortunately, their fellow neighbors were routinely tasked with catching then calling said "owners" to let them know once again 'junior' was out & about. He would routinely come waging his tail into my garage because he knew I was a dog person.
He was lonely, left out too much while his 'owners' were away on trips, partying, just gone. Busy, busy, busy....small wonder 'junior' was anxious, insecure, and lonely. He had no schedule, nor structure in his world. Dogs don't like that. His owners are clueless about this....
He'd bark at everything he could easily see out of their metal fence. People, other dogs, kids, bicycle riders, etc. Clearly he wanted to join in and needed some attention. The sad part is when they ARE home, I never see any of them actually WALK this dog. Take him for a bike ride, down the many trails nearby, play with him in the yard. NOTHING. How pathetic.
Poor dog is bored-to-death, isolated and WAY under-exercised. Even their kids don't walk this dog!
So why the h&ll have one? The dog was 'rescued' from a no-kill shelter. OK. Now what? Far more to a healthy dog's life than kibble in bowl + water. Hamsters get that. So do rabbits. A dog is neither.
Owners decided to double-down this time getting a "disturbed, traumatized, man-hating" dog who barks at everything. (Same color too). He flunks at escaping, yet constantly barks. Very insecure, a bit unstable, irrational, etc. I've never seen the dog outside their yard, being walked. Yet all the neighbors have heard him, been barked at by him, and are thinking "here we go again". Same song; verse two.
I've sent emails, called and spoken to both face-to-face. Escalation has been necessary to be "heard". Finally YELLING OUT LOUD was necessary as my previous communication had evidently fallen on DEAF EARS. I was told to just drop it.
Really? How does that help? Why is it you believe your neighbors have no rights, yet you do? Who says? Where is that written? (This from the 'feeling', and 'rights' paradigm, no less). What about OUR feelings? What about OUR rights? What about OUR piece-of-mind?
We're just not important. Our rights infringes upon theirs to do what they want, when they want to, whenever. (What political system does that sound like?)
Yet I'm the bad guy for pointing this out?
Clearly these 'owners' are clueless how to deal with a traumatized dog. They don't even know how to deal with a regular dog. They're far too busy to take time out of their busy schedules to actually WALK one dog, much less two, or both together.
(You mean dogs actually need to be walked? Daily? WTH? That often? Really?.....). Yeah idiot. Dogs are social animals. You don't just get one to feed YOUR SELF, your own EGO. They have needs, requirements, and responsibilities OF THEIR OWN. Like daily walking, ball playing and interaction with an environment outside of their own boring, backyard.
My cats have received far more daily attention, brushing, and playing in comparison. I don't even own a dog yet I understand them far more than this neighbor/owner. Dogs I understand. Humans not so much.
A dog should never be the scratch to some knee-jerk itch. Dogs deserve MUCH better.
Unfortunately, this falls deaf upon the ears, minds and hearts of the self-centered and self-absorbed, who are clueless to the EMOTIONAL needs of a dog. I wonder if they realize they're also traumatized, damaged and irrational and pick dogs with the same characteristics?
Who needs rescuing?
/rant.