Originally Posted By: greenjp
Funny, reading this whole thread HollowEyes comes across as the most reasonable one here
Faced with people who do not even know him but presume to cast aspersions, stereotypes, etc, he's been pretty level headed.
I have no tattoos and don't see myself getting any, but the attitude of many posters regarding those who do says more about those posters than it does about the tattooed.
jeff
Reasonable is relative. Look at the studies in the link I gave before. Right or wrong, it seems that those who will view body art in a positive manner are largely going to be those sporting body art.
Conversely those who will view it negatively will be those who are not sporting body art.
Now we can argue it right or wrong and I'd side with those who say it's probably wrong to judge folks based on such a thing. But it would also be folly to pretend that such biases did not exist. As a parent, with an 18 year old step son, a 17 year old step daughter and a 12 year old daughter, it's my job to share the realities of the world with them and then let them make their own choices.
I would not be doing my children any favors if I just said do what you want. I'm teaching them to critically analyze their decisions and then determine if the potential costs are outweighed by the potential benefits.
With body art, today (which means it can change) it seems that those who find it favorable are those who already have it. Those who don't are those who don't have it. Given that the population that has is is about 1 in 8, that means the choice to have visible body art has the potential to alienate 3 to 5 people for every one who finds it a positive attribute.
Now is that hate, or is that the reality of the situation.
No one is saying don't do it. They are sharing, honestly, the impact of making such a choice.
If you want ink, get ink. If you don't, don't. If you get it and end up not having the same opportunities that you see others getting, you've been cautioned. At this time, you'll likely have to work harder to get your foot in the door in some places.
That is the cold, harsh reality.