Originally Posted By: Astro14
Had this debate with my sibling once, who when searching for a job out of college, refused to "dress corporate" stating that people had to accept the person and look past the clothes...but the clothes were a statement of who the person was...and the interviews weren't all that productive.
I think that gets to the original question as well as anything posted so far. People can tattoo, pierce, brand, or otherwise decorate themselves in any way they want. However, nobody else has to like it, or accept it, or not be "judgmental" about it. In an ideal world, we all should accept one another and look past the surface. In the real world, getting a tattoo on one's neck and then expecting that nobody will make judgements about it is a sure way to be a perpetual victim of misunderstanding.
Unless you're either independently wealthy or successful and satisfied in a profession where big, visible tattoos are the norm--musician, artist, tattoo artist, bartender or server at a place where tattoo aficionados hang out--common sense would suggest not getting tattoos that can't be covered easily.
I don't have a tattoo, but I did have hair about halfway down my back for ten years. That ended with the choice of either getting my first job with an actual salary, or continuing to be the cool, straight, educated, responsible guy with really long hair. I was hungry enough that I cut the hair (I was going bald anyway). Since then, I have never worried that somebody was judging me based on the length of my hair.