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I have a 2013 Tundra with 101 K on it. Mine has the 4.6 though. Great truck. I've used many different oils. Mobil, QSUD, Pennzoil Platinum. I just changed it last week and am now running Rotella Gas Truck 5w20 as I have a bunch from the Autozone clearance. It's easy on oil. Rarely do I have to add any. I also change it at about 7000 miles.
As for a filter every OC I've used OE from the dealer except once. One time I used a filter from Autozone. Around 5 bucks for the OE filters.
Good luck with it!
Factory Toyota filter and your choice of synthetic 0w20, 5w20, 0w30, or 5w30. In other parts of the world the 5.7L engine is or was offered in the Lexus LX570. In some of these countries 5w30 is the recommended oil. I'm currently running Mobil 1 EP 5w20.