If I stopped shopping at every place that has a "I'm never going there/buying that" accusation, there would be no where/nothing to buy or shop. In today's low wage "big box" store system, one needs to be their own self advocate to attempt to get satisfaction. There is no way around it.
Regarding the sales tax stuff. Most states have a "use tax" on the books for many years that makes it the responsibility of the buyer to pay the taxes on the annual tax forms for out of state, non taxed items. Nearly all of us break that law because it is not enforced. Slowly, they are turning the responsibility to the seller. Until then.......we all live in shame for cheating on our taxes.
Regarding the sales tax stuff. Most states have a "use tax" on the books for many years that makes it the responsibility of the buyer to pay the taxes on the annual tax forms for out of state, non taxed items. Nearly all of us break that law because it is not enforced. Slowly, they are turning the responsibility to the seller. Until then.......we all live in shame for cheating on our taxes.