how about instead of online you go on-life. go out to meet someone. Women are at stores, bars, coffee shops, work, convenience stores, etc. Say hi if you like what you see, start some small talk, get #, call it a win. You will lose at this also. But will win too.
It's a game, enjoy it. When you get the slice of pie, its that much sweeter.
Just remember to hit the reset button as needed, until you come across the game you'd like to play for life. That about sums it up. Oh, and sometimes playing can be expensive. Divorce, unwanted kids out of marriage, crazy women, etc. If you play, be prepared to pay. Another aspect of the game. That really sums it up.
Have fun.