If you want to find the one, you have to be the one.
You have to be where the women are.
From my experience, churches are not much better than bars. Met my ex-wife at a church. Didn't prevent her from being a cheating....
Do things. Go to the gym. Take classes, go to coffee shops, art museums, etc.
I meet all sorts of women. A spin class at the gym is 2:1 women for men, a target rich environment.
Of course, it's easier for me, I'm married, so I'm not trying hard, yet I meet women all the time. If I were less honorable, I'm sure I could have any number of women. But I wouldn't do that to myself or my wife.
We have a couple in our bicycle group who started dating and are now getting married.
Of course, I'm an extrovert, so I'm always out there. Probably harder if you are an introvert.
You have to be where the women are.
From my experience, churches are not much better than bars. Met my ex-wife at a church. Didn't prevent her from being a cheating....
Do things. Go to the gym. Take classes, go to coffee shops, art museums, etc.
I meet all sorts of women. A spin class at the gym is 2:1 women for men, a target rich environment.
Of course, it's easier for me, I'm married, so I'm not trying hard, yet I meet women all the time. If I were less honorable, I'm sure I could have any number of women. But I wouldn't do that to myself or my wife.
We have a couple in our bicycle group who started dating and are now getting married.
Of course, I'm an extrovert, so I'm always out there. Probably harder if you are an introvert.