When I was single, I agree it was not easy finding hot chicks to hook with, but it fun trying to. Don't take yourself too serious, have a sense of humor, work out a lil bit, get some new clothes and a hair cut, and just start rapping w chicks. Not just the pretty ones. All of them. I think of it as practice and u will get better with socializing the more you do it. Plus, the more people u meet, the better chance u have of hooking up. If u get rejected, move on to the next one. All guys get rejected. Trust me, even the hottest, most handsome, rich dudes get rejected. Have fun with it. I'm married now and it's not as fun as being single, lol