Originally Posted By: Spyder7
Agree with the poster who said the really hot ones also come with other baggage that really makes them equal out with less hot girls, overall. The hottest chick I was in a relationship with was easily a 9 (she was 19 and looked like a younger, tanned version of Yasmine Bleeth but with even more going on in the body department), but she came with a lot of baggage. In bed she was below average, very high maintenance overall, and also a drama queen. Ditto for the other really hot ones, although none quite measured up to her in any of those departments (or had the absolute killer looks she had). After 3 months the looks no longer cut it to put up with the rest of the package, and she got kicked to the curb.
I've since, with age and experience, found that - generally speaking - a 5 or 6 will be a lot less maintenance and much better relationship material. There are exceptions on both sides, but in my experience they are just that.
Now if its just a short term fling one is after, and has no illusions about a relationship with one of these girls, then the above caveats don't apply. Though from my experience, even then the pursuit is where the fun is, as once you've "scored" they tend to be a disappointment (kind of like climbing the mountain and discovering at the summit that the view wasn't all you'd thought it'd be).
-Spyder
That was some wonderful writing! You summed it all up.
Agree with the poster who said the really hot ones also come with other baggage that really makes them equal out with less hot girls, overall. The hottest chick I was in a relationship with was easily a 9 (she was 19 and looked like a younger, tanned version of Yasmine Bleeth but with even more going on in the body department), but she came with a lot of baggage. In bed she was below average, very high maintenance overall, and also a drama queen. Ditto for the other really hot ones, although none quite measured up to her in any of those departments (or had the absolute killer looks she had). After 3 months the looks no longer cut it to put up with the rest of the package, and she got kicked to the curb.
I've since, with age and experience, found that - generally speaking - a 5 or 6 will be a lot less maintenance and much better relationship material. There are exceptions on both sides, but in my experience they are just that.
Now if its just a short term fling one is after, and has no illusions about a relationship with one of these girls, then the above caveats don't apply. Though from my experience, even then the pursuit is where the fun is, as once you've "scored" they tend to be a disappointment (kind of like climbing the mountain and discovering at the summit that the view wasn't all you'd thought it'd be).
-Spyder
That was some wonderful writing! You summed it all up.
