Originally Posted By: xBa380
They can claim they are the best things to ever happen to them, well, how I see it, they didn't have much going for them before-hand then. I'm busy with my hobbies, traveling, various projects and being able to do whatever we want.
Incorrect. having kids doesn't mean you give up hobbies, traveling, or "projects".
On the flip side, I'd argue that if this is the reason you don't want kids, you probably didn't have much going on for you in the past. Now you feel such a sense of relief that you finally figured out how to make yourself happy, you need to smother yourself in it and are afraid to share it with a little one!
They can claim they are the best things to ever happen to them, well, how I see it, they didn't have much going for them before-hand then. I'm busy with my hobbies, traveling, various projects and being able to do whatever we want.
Incorrect. having kids doesn't mean you give up hobbies, traveling, or "projects".
On the flip side, I'd argue that if this is the reason you don't want kids, you probably didn't have much going on for you in the past. Now you feel such a sense of relief that you finally figured out how to make yourself happy, you need to smother yourself in it and are afraid to share it with a little one!