Originally Posted by Shannow
multigenerational shared accommodation has been the vast majority of human existence.
No child care, no aged care. The kids learned about their family and values, the elderly felt that they had a place.
For a very brief period in the human story, "moving to where the work is" allowed a single decent job to buy and run a household, but that evaporated quickly to two incomes, kids in daycare, and the elderly parked into (expensive) aged care facilities.
It's all part of the plan
It is common outside of the U.S. for this arrangement my wife is having issues with our oldest not living with us. Having a 21 year in my house not taking care of his responsibilities and attempting to influence her on how to raise his younger brothers was causing some issues. Grown kids in living with parents/grandparents causes situations we are not used to dealing around here.
multigenerational shared accommodation has been the vast majority of human existence.
No child care, no aged care. The kids learned about their family and values, the elderly felt that they had a place.
For a very brief period in the human story, "moving to where the work is" allowed a single decent job to buy and run a household, but that evaporated quickly to two incomes, kids in daycare, and the elderly parked into (expensive) aged care facilities.
It's all part of the plan
It is common outside of the U.S. for this arrangement my wife is having issues with our oldest not living with us. Having a 21 year in my house not taking care of his responsibilities and attempting to influence her on how to raise his younger brothers was causing some issues. Grown kids in living with parents/grandparents causes situations we are not used to dealing around here.
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