I would forget that idea as quickly as they put it into your head.
Ask yourself why it has gotten to this point? (That you need to travel to a foreign land to find a partner, when women outnumber men in this country).
It was a choice and the cost of working and paying for college and debt before taking time to date.
I know several guys that have been married 10+ years to an “Asian” from overseas.
Getting a foreign girl, It hasn’t gotten to that point with me and never will, and I fully understand why.
Close to a third of straight guys my age have never married (and likely never will)
After you hit 20, Being a boring middle wage clean cut suit doesn’t lead to good options and I have no desire getting involved with someone who will divorce in 5 years or less. I also have no desire to date someone just out of school or old enough to be my mother or someone who abused their body to the point to require a caregiver.
I also have no desire to be in a bar until 2 am because there aren’t women there until almost bar time. (This area that is how it is)
So It’s a very practical matter that anyone out of the dating market the last 10 years won’t understand.
New Marriage is for the very young and very old, the in between get the left overs. There is always that 1 out of 10 that is the exception that proves the rule but who cares?
You either take what’s left and all the problems that come with it or you don’t.
I personally won’t, just means I go on an occasional date that leads to another 3 month relationship.
I was never a drinker, smoker, addict, always been employed and cleaned up finances in order.
Most guys like me stay single.
And that’s fine, it’s unfortunate society imposes a heavy view on a single male.
It’s also unfortunate the amount of broken damaged people there are in the world.
I was a much happier, kind and positive person before I tried online dating.
I know all kinds of things I don’t want to and experienced things I never would want or think possible.
Lots of bad people in the world, that’s just how it is.