You handled those questions quite well. I dont think 20w50 is a good choice for any newer cars, but he was using 5w50 synthetic, even though that is quite a spread, I think it would be ok. Iam just stuck on a 10w30, oils are alot thinner then they used to be, A 10w30 is about like a 5w30 of 10 years ago. We can both agree you can go to extemes and have adverse effects in either direction. Thanks for the definition of that word, now how do I say it, so I can freak out my wife?