Lots of people on here are using the Mobil 1 0w40 in these engines. I have a gen III but currently running a jug of RGT 5w20 but topped off with 5w30 since it holds 6 qts, it just went over 120k without any lifter ticks or piston slap provided that I occasionally drive it. I didn't for a month or two so it had to pump the lifters back up but it's been fine since driving it more regulary.
I wouldn't worry so much about the AC Delco filters, yes they redesigned them and lots of people are not happy but I've used them and haven't experienced any issues whatsoever. I've used the PF46e but the newer gens switched to metric threads on the filter.