Was your buddy's truck bombed? What was he / it doing at time of failure? RPM's? Boost? HP level? Torque level? Dyanoed?
Many guys on TDR have 100,000 200,000 300,000 400,000 miles on theirs. I have only 55k on mine, but plan for 500k + and I tow heavy.
Interesting, I would like to know more...