I don't mind you disagreeing, in fact I encourage it if it is backed up with facts. I'm not always right and never claim to be, but my positions are always evidence-based, which is why LOS is generally maligned on here, as the evidence clearly shows what the product is.
The problem, which you've well-highlighted in the last part of your post, is that people get invested in a mindset and then will just "laugh" when presented with information that clearly contradicts it. They'd rather laugh it off then do the work reconciling their belief with reality and that's dangerous and that's often what happens when people slag a specific car company as a whole, rather than delving into the nuance of the topic and how they've had some specific models/engines/transmissions...etc that were problematic.
Take the latest Honda thread that The Critic posted where the camshaft ate itself. Honda benefits from a reputation for being indestructible, but it's become reasonably clear in that thread that this isn't an isolated incident. Should we all swear off Honda now because this engine seems particularly more prone to camshaft issues? Of course not, the same reason people shouldn't avoid the HEMI because the odd one has a lifter failure or Toyota because they had engines sludge solid.
Yes, absolutely avoid problematic products if you are not inclined to deal with those issues when they come about; if the cost outweighs the experience. If you are looking for an engaging car and it having the absolutely lowest TCO isn't important, sure, buy that BMW, pay to play! If you want a car with the lowest possible TCO and it having the personality of a toaster doesn't bother you, then sure, get that Camry or Corolla.
Chrysler's minivans have typically had a very good reputation for being cheap to buy and maintain. Yes, the new Pacifica does not have that reputation, and hey, it may not get it, but we'll see, it's too early to tell yet, and that's the point I was trying to get you to see. You can't condemn the current Pacifica based on the model bearing the same name produced ages ago that has nothing in common with it.
You can't make a claim that something would have been a financial nightmare and back it up with the fact you dislike Chrysler, that's not how evidence works. There's not enough viagra in the world to keep that argument up.