You're doin the right thing. Doesn't work that way with my 2 old Toyota's, on the oil pans anyway. Have to use 10mm aluminum crush washers. The OE spec'd loosen up. I think it's the steel pan plug seats got wavy over the years. You can actually see the wave in the washer on the pan side. Not replacing the pans. Threads are not stripped. No rust. Not leaking. Aluminum crush washer fixed it. Some guys got lucky with copper washers. I'll take an aluminum oil pan any day. No problems with my Honda aluminum pan, crush washer. And the aluminum gives you more threads anyway.,,at least on my Honda....