I'm not familiar with this engine, other than what I've seen in car reviews on YT, so I can't really say what is and isn't "normal" for wear rates. This particular engine certainly sheds a lot of Fe. I had considered buying one of these cars, but new car pricing among other issues has made me reticent to open my wallet.
The second OCI report; should that be 3300 miles and not 4000? I think the math is bad on the OCI distance. That matters only in that the "wear rate" would be much higher per 1k miles.
There is zero ability here to say that one lube is "better" than another; far too little data to make any conclusion in such a manner.