Its funny that you guys have been discussing DEFY here lately. Yesterday while at the dealership, I had a conversation with a couple Service Techs and the Svc Mngr concerning everything oil related w/ the d.i. 2.0T. One of them owns a 2013 SFS 2.0T as well, and he uses 5w30 SL Defy at 5k mi oci. His main reasons being the extra detergents and the HTHS over 3.0. I forgot that our manuals state SL as permissible...
Owners manual
If the API service SM engine oil is not available in your country, you are able to use API service SL.
All of them recommended it highly.