If we had paid for our wedding, it would have been much smaller. My MIL though apparently wanted her daughter to have the wedding she didn't. It would have been nice to have that money for paying off school, but it wasn't my money to spend, ergo, no choice. I think it was a nice wedding, not perfect but good enough; and I never heard any complaints (but there was an open bar, that fixes many an issue). I would have been fine with much less; it's an important day, but all the "stress" was done before that (is she the right one? how well will we age together?) and all the real work (and cost) comes later.
The wife though is a bit laid back. The first dress she tried was the "right" one; she had to humor everyone else and spend a couple hours trying everything else suggested on. She wanted to be on time to the church, but it was others who were running late. Throughout the process she was often the only one not stressed out.
The wife though is a bit laid back. The first dress she tried was the "right" one; she had to humor everyone else and spend a couple hours trying everything else suggested on. She wanted to be on time to the church, but it was others who were running late. Throughout the process she was often the only one not stressed out.