Originally Posted By: aquariuscsm
What I remember about the 70s,families could maintain a good lifestyle on one income. Companies took care of their employees. No one I knew growing up had both parents working. Several of my friends' fathers worked factory jobs where they were provided with company cars,country club memberships,excellent insurance and benefits,etc.
I remember as it went into the 80s,the moms had to enter the workforce,company cars were ended,the country club memberships were cancelled,families were no longer able to spend time together,and ALL of my friends parents ended up divorced and families broken up.
Didn't think I would ever read a post from you that I agreed 100% with, but there it is.
My mother used to talk about how when she had my older brother, she was given paid maternity leave by NYC (whom she worked for), and spent three weeks in the hospital recovering (as recommended by her doctors). 2.5 years later, when she had me, maternity leave was unpaid, and she was basically given a 48 hour vamoos notice by the hospital once I was out.
My grandfather was a skilled electrician. With only him working, he supported 5 children, his wife, cash bought his apartment, and cash bought 2 brand new Impalas every model year from 1958-1984. When he retired at 60, they wanted for nothing, and he fulfilled his dream of buying a big piece of land and starting a personal strawberry patch, pear tree orchard, and the tulip garden he died in. My grandfather was a simple man from the South. He never went to business school, engaged in investment schemes, or anything. Just worked, saved, and lived his life.
That's another thing I've noticed. I always read about regular people who had armies of children, supported a wife, and still lived comfortably. Nowadays, people ponder the idea of even having one child.