There's 2 ways a bearing can fail from excessive oil viscosity.
The first way is heat. Higher viscosity means more hydrodynamic friction and where there's friction, there's heat. This isn't likely in a daily commuter with 220*F sump temps, but a car that's raced or driven "spiritedly" could see accelerated bearing fatigue from prolonged high friction and heat resulting in spalling.
The second way is cavitation. This is rare and difficult to make happen in a car engine, but still a way it can happen. Higher viscosity traps air easier and doesn't like to let go of it making it more susceptible to aeration. On top of that, higher viscosity also means higher oil pressure and higher pressure increases the capacity of entrained air. As it worsens, aeration sharply increases the oil's viscosity, compounding the problem. If it gets aerated enough, that air can release under high pressure in the bearing and cause bearing cavitation.
Higher viscosity will also mean a higher pressure drop across the filter which could mean more bypass events sending dirty oil to the bearings, but this isn't something you'd likely see a noticeable wear pattern from in even 500k miles.
Aside from the bearings, it's common in the Ford small block V8 world to see snapped oil pump drives from using 20W-50 oil and revving it in cool weather. Yes, idiotic user error, but still something that isn't seen with lower viscosity oils.
Some engines with very thin (1mm and 0.7mm) rings with low tension can also have bad effects from high viscosity oils. This is mainly due to the friction mentioned above, but also the oil film thickness. We like the rings to be in full hydrodynamic lubrication through peak piston speed, but too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. It can cause increased oil transport past the rings and upset ring seal.