Originally Posted by OppositeLocK
I've been driving for about 12 years. Covered plenty of miles, with many different types of vehicles, in all kinds of traffic, roads, and situations. From Wranglers, to Minivans, to F-150's, to RAMs, to Corollas, Altimas, etc. But... I've only ever driven automatic.
Well...I bought a brand new WRX with a manual transmission. Needless to say, I've never felt more emasculated in my life. I've driven it about 3 days and put about 60 miles on it. For the life of me I can't master clutch control. It's always either too much gas or not enough, or I miss the friction point. Always a clunky start, with a jerky shift... and that's good because it means I haven't stalled it...
Feels like I'll never get good. I've only been driving it on the weekend on isolated country back roads. I refuse to commute or drive it in general traffic until I can drive it like I do any other car. It's honestly been very a demotivating, disheartening, and disappointing experience for me. Feel like an idiot through and through.
You should have started with a used economy car like a 5/6-sp Corolla or Civic or something before jumping to a performance car, it's easier to learn on a lower horsepower vehicle and a clutch you don't care that much about. I would think about getting a small, cheap 5-sp and drive that as a daily driver (or winter car if it applies to where you live) and use that for a while before you smoke your WRX clutch...
In any case, there are several good Youtube videos with some going on up to an hour or more on how to properly drive a standard transmission...