Don't particularly want anything...if I need or want something I just go buy it myself. The fake "I love it, it's perfect" stuff turns me off completely.
My wife and I generally buy a household improvement for each other for Christmas...windows one year, a roof the next year, finished basement the next. This year we sold the house and the new one won't be ready till June 2018 so we're likely not getting/giving each other anything, and I'm good with that.