I think a lot of you can't do simple math, forget about business expenses, taxes, insurance and have never really given much thought to the things the RE agents do during a "simple" transaction.
Let me say that I'm not a fan of most RE Agents. Most jump into that industry THINKING they are going to make millions, very easily, that they are smarter than most, but they couldn't sell a bottle of water in the desert.
On a typical $400k home sale - the 6% commission is $24,000. We are not in a period of 2020-2022 anymore. Outside of DC and a few other areas, a $400k home isn't selling very fast today.
That $24k gets split into a buyer's broker and seller's broker. Usually it gets split 50/50 with the buyer's broker and buyer's agent and I think in some areas it's 60/40 with seller's agent and broker, some might do 50/50. The seller's agent has to pay for pictures, ad space, MLS fee, ya, ya, ya. The buyer's agent probably has some costs outside of showings and such.
So at best, the seller's agent and buyer's agent are grossing $6,000 each. Let's take away $1,000 in expenses each. $5,000 taxable. That means they take home about $3500 and many pay for their health insurance out of that, additional 7.65% payroll taxes, etc. If they are lucky, they will close on one of these every 7-10 days. I bet there are 5 weeks a year of ZERO contact from clients. That means there's no new listings, buyers, or potential closings for 5-6 weeks. Probably leaves them with 25 closings at best. I am sure any real estate agent would love to close 25 $400k houses a year. Truth it, many are $180-250k homes.
Do some of them make a quick buck? Yep. But there's also hard, hard times for them.
Again, I am not a fan of most. The ones that do their job on a top tier level, they will absolutely make your deal happen the best for you.
A friend of mine and I do share the same conundrum of ethics for them - why on Earth would my buyer's agent want to sincerely negotiate the price down, effectively reducing their commission?