Someone asked me to explain my actions. I think this below explains it - stress relief. Was I in the right? Probably not.
However, again, potentially dangerous driving vs a finger? Come on.
This was a very heavily traveled road at the beginning of rush hour, and their actions affected several other cars -- not just me.
Probably best just to delete the thread. Everyone has chimed in -- thanks.
Originally Posted By: supton
Originally Posted By: Vikas
I am getting too old; I agree with Pop.
What *exactly* were you planning to achieve by giving 1-finger salute? You must have some rationale for doing that. Why not tell us?
The same amount of stress releif as yelling at the steering wheel or windshield? The communication of "yes I see you, and I think you're a moron too"?
I agree, two wrong's don't make a right: but there is a difference between flippin' the bird and intentionally cutting in front of someone so one can do a brake check. Yes, it can escalate a situation, so it's best avoided. But people are responsible for their own actions. Being flipped off is not an excuse to go 'roid rage.
[I realize they didn't do a brake check in this case. I've had this happen a couple times, and not from when I've flipped people the bird.]
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Actually, to piggy-back on this: if flipping someone the bird is completely wrong, is high-beaming someone wrong too? Let's say someone cuts in too close in front of you. Obviously speeding up to tailgate would be wrong, I think we can all agree to that. But is "hey, like, I exist on this road also" an ok gesture?