Just purchased a 2016 Honda Odyssey with 82k one-owner miles after years of driving a Dodge/Chrysler vans. My last van was a 2016 Grand Caravan purchased in February 2017 with 28k miles. It had 181k miles and had the dreaded Pentastar lifter tick. I knew that my next van would be something with around 100k miles in order to fit my budget. I wanted something that had the best chance of going another 100k + miles. Tried a Toyota but the seats didn’t fit my wife. In any event, this is the first import vehicle we have owned. Are there any known trouble spots with this generation of Honda vans? I’ve ordered the harness/chip that plugs into the coolant sensor to keep the VCM from shutting down 3 cylinders and will install that tomorrow.
Based on my 2008 you are wise to disable the VCM it will cause nothing but problems. Also as others have stated a tranny spill and fill should be done every 30k or so.
Compared to my wife's current 2016 Sienna I wouldn't call the Odyssey "reliable" but it is a serviceable vehicle. We have had lots of recalls on the 2008 Odyssey and a plethora of TSB's and failures for known issues (rear taillights condensation, HVAC actuator valves failing x 2, front seat leather delaminating, front VVT spool valve leaking, alternator failed at 107k (unrelated to the spool valve leak, bearings failed), rear O2 sensor failed, front parking sensor failed, CV boots failed, etc.). In short, time is the enemy on older vehicles.
I did do timing belt, valve adjust, valve cover/plug gaskets, coolant hoses, coolant, plugs, thermostat, water pump at 96k and you should budget these services also.
So far the expensive motor mount is Ok but I did disable VCM early in the vehicles life.