JHZR2
Staff member
Hmmmm...
Shes part of your family, which they need to accept at some point... but you need to respect your fiancee. You and she will hopefully be together and share many christmases together. This one is one to specd with the old family as to help closure. It seems your fisncee recognizes her place isnt there. If she forbids you from going, you mught want to re-look your new relationship.
Id go, and if the timing is right, or else another time, share the news with the FIL. It is what it is. Now just may not be the time.
Shes part of your family, which they need to accept at some point... but you need to respect your fiancee. You and she will hopefully be together and share many christmases together. This one is one to specd with the old family as to help closure. It seems your fisncee recognizes her place isnt there. If she forbids you from going, you mught want to re-look your new relationship.
Id go, and if the timing is right, or else another time, share the news with the FIL. It is what it is. Now just may not be the time.