I have been in AA for 32 years. I used to say most of my friends are dead or in prison. Well, now I say they are dead.
I am one of the lucky ones, I can tell you that. The success rate for alcoholism is very low.
This is a disease. Left untreated it kills and will probably take many innocent people along with you.
For those of you who think locking up people works, I can can tell you this:
Arrest and jails scared the sh.. outta me; cops probably saved my life. But that's just me.
Jails and prisons damage people, which fuels addiction. Damage, oftentimes beyond repair.
And sentences are unfairly handed out to people of color and the poor. Hardly justice.
There are no easy answers.
It takes what it takes. AA worked for me. If it doesn't work for you try something else.
I can tell you, as addict/alcoholics, if each year did not get better, we would not stay sober.
We always need a fix. Today my fix is life. I wish you luck.