I keep oil temp up on the mini screen in my FXT all the time, along with boost and another parameter I can't remember right now. I have no idea where the sensor for this is actually located, though.
Highest I ever saw was something like 232F, this on a sunny, humid upper 90s day while climbing a very long hill on 101 in the Monadnocks up in NH with two other people in the car, a load of softball gear and luggage in the back, and the AC on. I was probably passing some slowpokes, er, more conservative drivers at the time. Was also running M1 5W30 ESP then, which definitely ran a bit hotter than M1 5W30.
More typical operating temps after warm up for me are 200-220F. I thought I would notice my oil temps dipping a bit when I filled with M1 5W30 AP, but they didn't seem to change much and then I read that this AP is about as thick as the ESP was around 100C (HTHS is dramatically lower, though, 3.0 to 3.58).