It generally takes a lot longer for oil to heat up than it does for the coolant. Most passenger cars don't have oil coolers, and there is no thermostat to regulate oil temperature. In normal daily-driver usage, oil temperature will eventually get up to coolant temperature, and if engine speed is kept low, the oil will stay at 180-200F. If you are driving hard with the engine speed high, after about 10-15 minutes, oil temperature can get up to the 220F range. None of these temperatures are of concern. It is actually better to get the oil temperature above 200F for extended periods so that the water that comes into the crankcase from combustion products can be boiled off. In the cases where oil temp never gets above 150F, such as in short-interval winter driving, the oil actually ages more quickly. I consider oil temperature in the range of 180-240F to be normal operating range.