What are some of the products that can provide better anti-wear properties for regular vehicles, when compared to the mass-market products?
The chances of you having a wear failure from any oil (synthetic blend, group 3, PAO/Ester/AN based) is extremely low. Outside of hard race conditions. If you’re doing racing, then look into a proper oil for your engine build.
The main this to me, is the oils ability to maintain viscosity and film thickness at operational temperatures and beyond. What’s the viscosity at 350-400f? That you’ll see on the piston skirts, turbo, etc. which is where products like redline / hpl / etc. excel in the long term. As they can take the heat and keep on trucking.
A synthetic blend can too. But, you just have to change your oil more often.
So what’s your OCI? What’s your driving conditions? How often do you like to crawl under the car and do it? Or have it done for you?
It’s more of a personal question at this level. Because honestly, it’s doubtful you’ll see an oil based failure if you’re doing basic oil drain intervals.
Mechanical failures, or cars simply falling apart (rust, electronic gremlins) will probably happen first.