Are you speaking specifically about the clutch or shifting action?
M1 has been known to be too slick for the brass synchros on Subaru's. The most common problem that comes up is grinding gears.
The '02 WRX's have a known issue of clutch judder and a TSB was issued. Since you have a new WRX, I don't think it's the same judder/shudder but I guess it's possible.
I used
Amsoil gear lube (not Series 2000)in my Outback Sport for 3 years and never had a problem. I'll soon be putting it in my Forester XT.
You can search nasioc.com for more gear oil experiences, and you will find hundreds.
edit: I see that you're on nasioc and someone did recommend M1 to you. The following is from an old STi mailing list and was posted by RalliSpec:
"The only difference between Mobil1 synthetic gear lube and Mobil SHC (also synthetic) is the lack of friction modifiers in Mobil SHC (preferred for Subaru tranny).
Mobil SHC from what I understand is an industrial product and thus packaged for industry and not easily obtainable. We carry this fluid but get in 5-gal containers direct from the distributor...
...RalliSpec"
-Dennis
[ April 06, 2004, 10:13 AM: Message edited by: bluesubie ]