Well, okay. Let's start over.
We have two cams, each using a different oil. One is scored, the other is not.
There are several possible reasons why one cam would be scored and not the other:
1. Mileage
2. Materials differences in the cams
3. Oil
4. Driving style
5. Break-in
We can rule out #1 since the mileage difference points in the opposite direction. We can rule out #2 because it is highly unlikely. But to blame the oil, we still have to rule out the other two possibilities (#4 and #5).
We know the cars were not driven the same, so we can't rule out #4. Since neither car saw proper warm-ups, it's also possible that the differences in driving styles were magnified.
We also have no idea if the engine with the scored cam was properly broken in, so we can't rule out #5.
So, in a nutshell: could it be the oil? Sure. Or it could be the result of a difference in driving style. Or it could be improper break-in. We can speculate all we want, but unless we can rule out all other factors -- which we already know we can't -- then we can't blame the oil.