I don't know what your problem is. Maybe you've not read the entirety of the thread, so for you, I'll say it again. I have three shops that I'll be taking the car to for a further diagnosis. Actually, one has already determined it's motor mounts. I'll be getting a couple of additional opinions within the next week ... right now the issues are which and how many mounts need to be replaced and which shop will provide the best value and service, both in terms of cost and turnaround time. How hard can that be to understand?
Parenthetically, it's a royal pain to take the car to the nearest dealers. They are inconvenient to get to, I'd have to leave the car all day and go through some machinations to return home and get back to the dealership to pick up the car, while the other shops are close by, have comfortable waiting rooms, nearby places to grab breakfast or coffee, and therefor are more pleasant and easier to deal with ... plus, I trust them more than the local dealers, with whom I've also dealt.