I placed my vote with my checkbook and went to the 2.7EB. I don't worry about stressing it; engineers have been designing higher-stressed diesels for years so it's not too hard to think that in a purpose-designed block, using the same material as a diesel, that it can handle towing with boost. I can't isolate boost/throttle-trans tuning/trans to say which one does the most, but the overall impact is impressive to me. Most of my commute is 45-50 mph with stops, and it's averaging 20-21 mpg. I leave it in eco mode and the engine sits at 1600 rpm and basically just chooses different gears. I like lower-revving drivelines and this works for me. Plenty of power below 2,000.
It is, unnatural, however, to start your truck and it sound like a honda 4 banger. It's a small, small engine and sounds that way. But when you step on it, it does what it claims.
At 45 mph, it gets above 30mpg. The limitations seem to be aero drag.
I will say this - there is no intuitive "feel" at the gas pedal. The DBW is very apparent. There is a constant ballet between the throttle body, trans, and presumably engine timing all happening at once.
-m