OK -- looking down into connector there was a Tan stripe and a Yellow stripe. The Tan stripe was definitely one of the o-rings and I got it out. The Yellow stripe had me puzzled because it was very hard and it wasn't moving. It felt plastic like the rest of the connector. I thought is was some kind of backup ring or something. The o-ring I put in there to replace the Tan o-ring was a Black Viton o-ring. If I had it to do over again, I would've got a Tan o-ring because they are so much easier to see against the very dark background. Getting the Tan o-ring out with a 90 degree pick wasn't too hard, but getting the new o-ring down in there was an astronomical difficult task with a pocket screwdriver.
I kept wishing that I could grab ahold of the o-ring so that I could pull up on it when it went past the groove. What I ended up doing is getting one side of the o-ring into the groove and hoping it would stay there while I was trying to get the other side of the o-ring into the groove. I finally managed to get both sides of the o-ring into the groove and then the o-ring expanded and got comfortable in its new home.