I grew up in a matriarchal whanau (extended family) which revolved around my grandmother - Nana was the centre of my life until she died in the '80's. I have no pictures or mementos of her, I don't need to, she left enough of herself in me to remain forever. She was divorced (not cool in the '30's), and Grandad was around, just not welcome. My mother's parents were non existant to us.
My kids had no grandfather's, both our fathers died young, but they had grandmothers. My granddaughter has one set of grandparents she sees all the time, she lives with us several days a week...and she has a great grandmother, that's pretty rare.
My kids had no grandfather's, both our fathers died young, but they had grandmothers. My granddaughter has one set of grandparents she sees all the time, she lives with us several days a week...and she has a great grandmother, that's pretty rare.