This is actually my website, funny seeing it it here today. I can answer some questions:
I've got an ever growing list of waxes to test. I think my backlog is something like 50+ waxes at the moment, ranked by how often they're asked about. I do have a bottle of NuFinish should should be in the next test or possibly test after that. I have I think just one Griot's product tested, no Mothers, but I do have two Meguiar's products in there.
You're not wrong, durability is the single biggest factor in my testing today, followed by gloss. It tends to be the quality most, but not all people, find important. For instance the Spray Wax you mentioned with 2 wash durability would be disqualified by most people since they would have to reapply the product constantly. Some people with show cars may be ok with that, or those that like to wax their cars a lot, but there are prettier products for those purposes. The Slick & Slide actually only failed visual appeal, not ease of application, it is easy to use. Some people trade visual appeal for durability if it's cheap enough or easy enough to attain for a daily driver, especially in harsh climates where cars are always dirty anyway.
This is why I show a broken out table and include a video for each product. You can decide for yourself if shopping that particular product. For example Fusso Coat original formula is very well regarded, even though it's not as shiny as many other products. I'm not the first one to note this. However, people are willing to source it from Asia and Eastern Europe and wait weeks, or in the case of one of my friends, almost 2 months.
Gloss Units are not the only factor for visual quality, but it is an objective quality since it can be measured (like durability). Paint that has been well cared for, even 3 year old paint, should be in the 90-100 GU range. Paint that has weathered over a decade or prematurely aged due to abuse may be in the low 80s or worse. Everyone's eyes are a little different, but the higher the overall gloss the harder it is to tell. On low gloss surfaces even small differences in gloss are very noticable. For well polished car paint I would say 5GU is perceivable, but not very noticable. Meaning if I showed you a taped off line where the gloss changes you will probably notice it but won't go "oh wow that's huge". It is definitely easier to polish a turd and have people go "wow what a difference" than a brand new car, but even a brand new car can look better.
This is because gloss units aren't all that account for the subjective visual appeal pass/fail rating that I give. Some products that aren't very glossy create thicker coatings, and although they may reflect a tiny bit less light those thicker products often look very pretty. You get a candy looking appearance like the clear coat got thicker, with very easy to see depth added to the paint. You can see the difference before and after with the taped off line I mentioned.
The problem is like
@MrHorspwer noted; Slickness, visual appeal, ease of application, are all subjective opinions. For visual appeal some people don't like that thicker products make their paint look darker for example. It's really hard to quantify visual appeal. It's like ranking models on a number scale, some guys have a thing for blondes and others brunettes. This is why I can't give it an out of 10 score (or similar) because to me it would be even sillier. Essentially I just fail products for what is in my opinion are unacceptable visual qualities, like looking ashy and/or clearly duller than the taped off area for instance. If the product manages to make the paint look better then I pass it.
I am looking to expand my objective testing and have some heat and UV related tests cooking up that should hopefully expand the scoring very soon! I would like to figure out a way to objectively measure slickness, but haven't been able to come up with a repeatable objective test that gives good results so far. Professional tribometers are quite pricey, but I'm looking into those too.
As for the Adam's Graphene Ceramic Spray, it is very noxious without adequate ventilation or protection. I would say do it outside with just a basic N95 to avoid big droplets as you apply it to your applicator. Indoors I would definitely go with a chem cart on a respirator because it is super noxious.