I have found that the soft compound winter tires will wear excessively in the centers if inflated to the vehicle manufacturer's spec, I've had very good luck with around 28-29 PSI. I've worn out half a dozen or so sets of snow tires from new at this point, and my wife has worn out several sets. I measure tread depth with a digital caliper and keep a close eye on things. Of course this varies by vehicle, tires, and conditions, and I don't think there is a one-size-fits-all solution.
Winter conditions vary significantly, and what we consider routine or extreme is subjective. I used to live on a dirt road that was rarely plowed during big lake-effect events, so 12"-18" of snow on the road wasn't unheard of. 4"-6" was very common. I often find that I can't seem to find a common ground with people when discussing winter vehicle and tire performance in forums, as this is what I consider normal, and certainly most do not. These debates must first be framed with some definitions. To me deep snow is at least leaving marks behind me from the body of the vehicle. People who live near the lake-effect portions of the great lakes or in the mountains certainly have a different perspective on snowfall.
Oh this brings back wonderful memories, when it actually got cold enough to snow, in the days before perpetual October.