Not at all. I'm merely reminded how people of distinction have treated me when they were miles ahead or above me.
You're stating a personal "preference" in how OTHERS conduct themselves in your midst.
I'm sure that a good share of the errors are from people who are struggling to meet some "standard" of compliance with (poorly) providing exactly what you seek.
Think of someone saying that you should "dress up" since they feel that your clothing selection is inappropriate for the milieu. You then go out and put together the equivalent of a leisure suit in an attempt to "do it right".
..but, again, in my seeking of insight into the nuances of group dynamics ....why is "corrective action" so important to you?
I'm just curious.