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Dual income, no kids, and we're both pretty tight with money. We live in a small house, have three cars (all paid off) and we don't owe money on anything except the mortgage. We have an excellent APR on the mortgage and we overpay on every bill. Everything goes through the credit cards to help accrue points. If you sit on the points for a year or two, you get several hundred dollars in return. Enough to pay a month's bills at least. I fix everything that is within my handyman ability, which is quite a lot to be honest. If a car goes to the mechanic, it's because I don't have the equipment for the job. I build and maintain our computers myself and we don't use pay software. Every light in the house is CFL except those above the dinner table. We cook dinner at least 5 nights out of the week.

While neither of us draws a very large salary, this lifestyle gives us a lot of extra money. Much of it is invested but we spend some, too, if we feel like it. If my wife wants something, she gets it. If I want something, I get it. No questions asked. Money is a cause of a lot of marital stress, so with that in mind it has been a priority for us to always have enough of it so that even in a crisis, money would not be a primary concern. If one of us was to lose our job, the change in income would only affect our amount going to savings savings and particularly extravagant spending (jewelry, guns, etc). We would not have to dip into savings unless we lost half our income AND there was a major emergency. The reason we have three cars is so that if one of them fails, we would have as much time as we might need to save up for another one without affecting anything.
 
Originally Posted By: demarpaint
I live well within my means, have perfect credit, and no debt to speak of. It is all helping in these tough times.

I've lived by this simple rule and it helped. "If I can't afford it I don't buy it". Pretty simple actually and if more people thought that way they wouldn't be a financial mess. Credit card companies and banks hate me.


Same here!!
 
I live well within my means and have no debt or mortgage payments, on a single moderate income. As the atmosphere of this thread indicates, the peace of mind living within your means brings is truly...priceless.
 
Originally Posted By: Smokescreen
"the peace of mind living within your means brings is truly...priceless".


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I live like I'm going to lose my job at the end of the month but need to beg for mercy to find a job through my connection.

So I'm stingy and invest my money strategically on things that reduce future living expense (eliminate debts).
 
If you always live beneath your means, you'll always have money.
Spend even a little less than you have in current income, and it adds up over time.
This allows you to take a nice vacation or two each year, to buy a new car when you need to (or a toy BMW summer car :)), as well as to have funds to deal with life's vicissitudes, including your eventual retirement, which may happen at a time not of your preference, based upon either being forced out, or due to health problems.
Having savings, and investing them, enables you to negotiate life's trouble spots.
The only way to have a nest egg is to build it by spending less than you make over time.
 
Its me and my wife with two small kids renting a house. Didn't purchase a house cause we didn't buy into the housing market hype plus we plan on leaving south FL in a few years. Both of us are working full time and save 30% of our gross pay towards retirement since Social Security won't be around in 20 years. I have 2 years of my gross pay in the bank (liquid cash) due to all the overtime I worked when I was single with no kids since I was constantly volunteered by my boss to work it at my previous job.

Thank God my wife isn't a spoiled drama queen princess that needs the latest fashion, clothes, jewelry, shoes, electronics, fancy car, extravagant vacations...... etc, etc. We have very little credit card debt and try to use coupons when shopping for groceries and stock up on Buy 1, get 1 Free items we need from Publix.
 
I guess most people here grew up in frugal families that didn't eat out much or take many vacations or buy fancy new toys all the time. Those habits stay with you forever. I grew up the same way. Frugality is good at an individual level but do not wish that everyone does it, because if everyone did you probably wouldn't have a job (the economy would fall apart
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We live day by day, buy the best of everything, never have or will buy 'cheap'. All organic food, milk etc. Threw A$4,000 at the BMW suspension a week back and didn't think twice about it. I've watched to many people go without everything then die including my parents. Remember you only live once, and you cannot take anything with you.
 
Originally Posted By: sprintman
We live day by day, buy the best of everything, never have or will buy 'cheap'. All organic food, milk etc. Threw A$4,000 at the BMW suspension a week back and didn't think twice about it. I've watched to many people go without everything then die including my parents. Remember you only live once, and you cannot take anything with you.


Hi sprintman,

Spoken like a single guy!

Cheers,
-J
 
Originally Posted By: sprintman
We live day by day, buy the best of everything, never have or will buy 'cheap'. All organic food, milk etc. Threw A$4,000 at the BMW suspension a week back and didn't think twice about it. I've watched to many people go without everything then die including my parents. Remember you only live once, and you cannot take anything with you.

So do you spend all the money you get as you get it? Or just budget your normal life so that you have surplus cash on had to do whatever(within some limits) you feel like at the time?

I think what's become common in N.A. is finance everything and budget based on monthly payments. So a family has say $4000/month after taxes to spend. So they lease two nice cars for $1500/month with insurance, and add more stuff until they get near $4000/month in spending... So if one income dissappears or the roof needs replacing, they have no buffer to cover that.
 
Originally Posted By: sprintman
I've watched to many people go without everything then die including my parents. Remember you only live once, and you cannot take anything with you.


I agree, there needs to be some balance. I know some people who only live to have material things and they spend their lives intent on earning money so they can spend more money.

Others, like Sprintman mentions, are so wound up on being frugal that they are uncomfortable out of their confines and they live miserable lives saving every penny they get.

I also disagree with the idea of building a nest egg in order to give it to your kids when you die. It's o.k. if you want to, but I'm not going to have that directing my life. They can earn their own way just like I am.
 
My Wife and I live within our means. We attempt to be stewards of our money, not frugal or thrifty, but buying things on value. If it costs more but has a particular value we want, we get it. Cost is only a factor, not the factor. Sometimes the main factor is who we buy from, even if it costs a bit more.

We live on my wife's modest salary and live in a small house in the "least affordable" area of the US.

We save a little bit right now. We saved about 25% of our income when I was working full time and have nice little Roth Iras. We built an "education fund", that along with some GI bill money, paid for me to finish a B. S. degree going full time, not working, and with no loans. We had enough money left over to remodel our bathroom.

Our newest vehicle is 6 years old, her 90 mile commute is done in a 9 year old car. I do all of the maintenance on them which saves $$$ and I know the quality of work done.
We take small vacations and visit her family at least once a year. Visits to her family requires flying so it's always expensive.
 
Below my means. I make a lot more this year than I used to, and in the last month I've probably not spent more than $100 on stuff outside of standard expenses. I commute in my Saturn because its better on gas, even though the Nissan is a much nicer car. It all makes a difference.
 
Buying on value is the right approach.
Who said:
"A fool knows the price of everything and the value of nothing?"
 
Originally Posted By: PandaBear
Originally Posted By: sprintman
Married, child 11. Close but no cigar!


Do you plan to pay for your kid's college one day?


I know it wasn't directed at me, but here is my answer to that question.

No!

I had to get scholarships and work to get my education. The kids that had mom and dad pay for college seemed to have this entitlement mentality.

My daughter will have significant personal financial skin in the game. I want her to actually value her education and work for it, just like I had to.
 
Originally Posted By: PandaBear
Originally Posted By: sprintman
Married, child 11. Close but no cigar!


Do you plan to pay for your kid's college one day?


we have other means down here...
 
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