My theories are theories, just like you have theories. I've never claimed to have proof, but simply say it's possible, and you don't have any real proof that aliens or life (intelligent or not) doesn't exists on other planets. Your theories don't stand just because you think mine don't - it's easier to say something doesn't exist because there is no proof, than it is to say something exists without proof - Occam's razor again, which sometimes is basically just a weak excuse. The problem is, there aren't many pieces of the puzzle that have been found, because it may take more searching for the right pieces of the puzzle. And of course, people will always say "Well, is that piece of the puzzle actually real or not"? It's easy for people to automatically go down the "Occam's razor" path and conclude something isn't real because nobody has shown solid proof, or claim it must all be due to some other phenomena or people are just mentally ill and hallucinating about stuff all the time. Same could apply if we were talking about ghosts or bigfoot.
It "seems" like the only planet? ... because you don't have any "smoking gun" that says otherwise ... so therefore "Occam's razor". The only one in this time frame - why? Do you think there can only be one planet at a time that can have some kind life going on? Two trillion galaxies with millions of suns with planets. Yet how could there never be the possibility of life starting up and evolving on some of them like it has here?
Who said the planets would have to be in another Galaxy? Even if they are in this Galaxy the distances to be traveled would be immense per what we know right now ... but again, people are locked into what we know about current technology and space travel right now. So what if there's intelligent life elsewhere? - what does it mean? It means that there is most likely a common denominator to how life is created and evolves. Wouldn't that be something valuable to discover and understand? I would hope that continued discovery and understanding would make the world a better place, and mankind more connected to reality.
You seem confident that mankind has already found every technological secret in the Universe. Don't you have any faith in man to find some new ground breaking technology in the next 25, 50, 100 or 500+ years? If mankind is still here in 500-1000 years from now, and man's technology discoveries and knowledge growth doesn't completely stop, do you think he will still be trying to figure out what grade of oil to use in his UFO?