Originally Posted By: bubbatime
I can relate to the OP. He gave a nice expensive gift to his wife for her use. He did not spend all that money for her to gift it to her brother. He likely would NOT have spent that much money on the brother, so he is ticked off about it.
I think the OP has a valid argument here.
If I buy something for my wife, I sure dont want her re-gifting it to her lazy brother.
This guy gets it.
If I knew the $200-300 dollar item I purchased was going to be intentionally left 300 miles away just months after giving it I would have made a different purchase choice, for sure.
I don't mind passing things down after they've run their course.
The Ipod wasn't cracked, beaten and abused. It was still in brand new condition.
At times she would wish her phone had a good camera, I would remind her "well I did buy you that Ipod you wanted, but you know..."
Additionally what ticked me off even more is as I said her brother, who was making his own money, was using it for a "couple weeks" until the next model phone was released. Release passed and the phone wasn't purchased and Ipod not returned. Weeks turned into years. It was "loaned" to him but was actually his in all but name.
At the time we were just dating, we are now married. Long ago we've learned to agree to disagree on the situation.
I can relate to the OP. He gave a nice expensive gift to his wife for her use. He did not spend all that money for her to gift it to her brother. He likely would NOT have spent that much money on the brother, so he is ticked off about it.
I think the OP has a valid argument here.
If I buy something for my wife, I sure dont want her re-gifting it to her lazy brother.
This guy gets it.
If I knew the $200-300 dollar item I purchased was going to be intentionally left 300 miles away just months after giving it I would have made a different purchase choice, for sure.
I don't mind passing things down after they've run their course.
The Ipod wasn't cracked, beaten and abused. It was still in brand new condition.
At times she would wish her phone had a good camera, I would remind her "well I did buy you that Ipod you wanted, but you know..."
Additionally what ticked me off even more is as I said her brother, who was making his own money, was using it for a "couple weeks" until the next model phone was released. Release passed and the phone wasn't purchased and Ipod not returned. Weeks turned into years. It was "loaned" to him but was actually his in all but name.
At the time we were just dating, we are now married. Long ago we've learned to agree to disagree on the situation.