I will share my recent experience.
Moderate workouts and slightly less consumption will let you drop weight pretty quickly.
I have lost forty pounds in the past year, with little serious effort.
If you eat a little less each day, you will soon not want to eat as much, and you will lose weight.
Once you are on a losing trend, you will experience ketosis, in which state you are actually burning fat, not mussle tissue.
You will know when this happens by the very distictive scent of your urine.
Eat what you like, just eat less of it. Do this for a week or so, and you will start dropping pounds, and you won't feel hungry.
For me, I am now a little below 170, less than I have weighed in the past ten years. My blood preasure is good unmedicated, and all the little joint and foot pains have gone away.
One factor may be your history. I think that if you were ever really athletic, it is easier years later to get back into shape.
Also, it seems to be much easier for men than it is for women.