I don't have any specific advice as dating is an unpredictable and individual endeavor. But boy could I rant about what a mess it is today. In a nutshell people aren't pairing off one on one much anymore and the 80/20 rule of 80% of the spoils go to 20% applies. If you have 10 girls and 10 guys you will basically have 10 guys hitting on every female and 2 of those guys will get or juggle most of the girls, because it's a take all you can dating world. The fact that there are millions of women out there doesn't help because there's millions of men chasing after them. And the best man doesn't always win, maybe the best looking, smoothest talking. Throw in the fact that having resources is a big attractor for females but females have as much money as men nowadays. Anyway, that's why a lot of guys are behind the 8 ball in the dating world. It's more trouble than it's worth.
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Ok so we all know that at least she got back to me- Wednesday After our sunday date night. It was nice to know that at the VERY LEAST I am worthy of a reply...
I ended up sending a quick reply email Thursday night then calling Friday to see if she wanted to set anything up for Sunday.
Turns out I called while she was still in the operating room! (I was hoping for VM !! Also what kind of doc answers the phone in surgery??!!) she said she would call later after work.
She did call.
ONLY MY PHONE DIED AS SOON AS I PICKED IT UP. DRATS !!! I was at the gym at the time so the first thing I did upon leaving is plug the phone in and send a msg.
I did not hear from her after that. That was Friday.
Sunday comes along and she sent me a txt here and there. To tell me she found a great forum website and blah blah blah....
The fact of the matter is this- If she wanted to see me there would be more effort. Bottom line.
Just seems weird to have a lot of fun with someone then have it not lead to anything more.
Oh and one other note: It turns out I dated someone that went to med school with her 3 years ago. Also a surgeon in training, she said that this woman is kind of flaky, does her own thing with little regard to other people's time.
Bingo.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
(looks like it will be dog kisses on my birthday this year)
Ok so we all know that at least she got back to me- Wednesday After our sunday date night. It was nice to know that at the VERY LEAST I am worthy of a reply...
I ended up sending a quick reply email Thursday night then calling Friday to see if she wanted to set anything up for Sunday.
Turns out I called while she was still in the operating room! (I was hoping for VM !! Also what kind of doc answers the phone in surgery??!!) she said she would call later after work.
She did call.
ONLY MY PHONE DIED AS SOON AS I PICKED IT UP. DRATS !!! I was at the gym at the time so the first thing I did upon leaving is plug the phone in and send a msg.
I did not hear from her after that. That was Friday.
Sunday comes along and she sent me a txt here and there. To tell me she found a great forum website and blah blah blah....
The fact of the matter is this- If she wanted to see me there would be more effort. Bottom line.
Just seems weird to have a lot of fun with someone then have it not lead to anything more.
Oh and one other note: It turns out I dated someone that went to med school with her 3 years ago. Also a surgeon in training, she said that this woman is kind of flaky, does her own thing with little regard to other people's time.
Bingo.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
(looks like it will be dog kisses on my birthday this year)
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Originally Posted By: needsducktape
Update:
Ok so we all know that at least she got back to me- Wednesday After our sunday date night. It was nice to know that at the VERY LEAST I am worthy of a reply...
I ended up sending a quick reply email Thursday night then calling Friday to see if she wanted to set anything up for Sunday.
Turns out I called while she was still in the operating room! (I was hoping for VM !! Also what kind of doc answers the phone in surgery??!!)
The fact of the matter is this- If she wanted to see me there would be more effort. Bottom line. Also a surgeon in training, she said that this woman is kind of flaky, does her own thing with little regard to other people's time.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
I said a while back that something didn't sound quite right.
But anyway why stop now? You are not looking at marrying her.
Also "Crazy in the head..wild in bed"
I say don't give up just yet.
Update:
Ok so we all know that at least she got back to me- Wednesday After our sunday date night. It was nice to know that at the VERY LEAST I am worthy of a reply...
I ended up sending a quick reply email Thursday night then calling Friday to see if she wanted to set anything up for Sunday.
Turns out I called while she was still in the operating room! (I was hoping for VM !! Also what kind of doc answers the phone in surgery??!!)
The fact of the matter is this- If she wanted to see me there would be more effort. Bottom line. Also a surgeon in training, she said that this woman is kind of flaky, does her own thing with little regard to other people's time.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
I said a while back that something didn't sound quite right.
But anyway why stop now? You are not looking at marrying her.
Also "Crazy in the head..wild in bed"
I say don't give up just yet.
You have to play the numbers and go through a lot of dates with different women to find a reliable one usually. Seems like anytime you chase one woman she takes you for granted and just strings you along kind of like one would do with a cat and a string. The instant I sense a woman is stringing me along, I stop contacting her. The bad part is it never seems like the girls who you want are the ones available lol. Also I try to avoid women in the medical field. Online dating can try your patience. Good luck to you in your search.
some girls you date keep you around on a string as a back up. you know, in case the guy they want doesn't work out. I had a girl call me five months later and wanted to go out. there was no texts/calls/emails or nothing for those five months. I thought she lost interest, but the guy she wanted dumped her. It also hurt because it was like a week after my birthday. I'm no one's back up plan, I told her to get lost. she never bothered contacted me again, she must have went to guy plan C.
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Originally Posted By: needsducktape
Update:
Ok so we all know that at least she got back to me- Wednesday After our sunday date night. It was nice to know that at the VERY LEAST I am worthy of a reply...
I ended up sending a quick reply email Thursday night then calling Friday to see if she wanted to set anything up for Sunday.
Turns out I called while she was still in the operating room! (I was hoping for VM !! Also what kind of doc answers the phone in surgery??!!)
The fact of the matter is this- If she wanted to see me there would be more effort. Bottom line. Also a surgeon in training, she said that this woman is kind of flaky, does her own thing with little regard to other people's time.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
I said a while back that something didn't sound quite right.
But anyway why stop now? You are not looking at marrying her.
Also "Crazy in the head..wild in bed"
I say don't give up just yet.
Agree. I don't want to marry ANYONE right now that is after months and months of dating NOT one date (no matter how good!)
-I could totally use the free health care (+ benfits) though....
Originally Posted By: needsducktape
Update:
Ok so we all know that at least she got back to me- Wednesday After our sunday date night. It was nice to know that at the VERY LEAST I am worthy of a reply...
I ended up sending a quick reply email Thursday night then calling Friday to see if she wanted to set anything up for Sunday.
Turns out I called while she was still in the operating room! (I was hoping for VM !! Also what kind of doc answers the phone in surgery??!!)
The fact of the matter is this- If she wanted to see me there would be more effort. Bottom line. Also a surgeon in training, she said that this woman is kind of flaky, does her own thing with little regard to other people's time.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
I said a while back that something didn't sound quite right.
But anyway why stop now? You are not looking at marrying her.
Also "Crazy in the head..wild in bed"
I say don't give up just yet.
Agree. I don't want to marry ANYONE right now that is after months and months of dating NOT one date (no matter how good!)
-I could totally use the free health care (+ benfits) though....
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