My Honda is my first encounter with crush washers, and Honda literature is adamant to not reuse the crush washer, because it could lead to damaging the threads in the oil pan. That makes sense to me, because at some point, the washer probably won't crush any further before the threads in the aluminum pan are damaged.
At $.41 each, or $.35 in a pack of 15, I ordered several from RockAuto when I got something else. Now I'm set for a few years, and I'll never have to find out what might happen if I re-use one. Many Honda dealers include a washer with a new filter; they tape it to the shrink-wrapped filter.