My 2 cents:
I am in a mild climate...I have been using battery tenders for over 15 years intermittently, but got more religious about it during the pandemic in 2020 due to my cars sitting more and now I use them constantly. My "fun" cars are constantly on battery tenders and daily drivers are plugged in at least two or three times a week overnight.
Over the past three years I have switched to using only Battery Minder and Pulse Tech as they seem to have lots of good feed back here. I have seen a difference in battery capacity and state of charge/state of health readings using these brands over others, such as Battery Tender, or Granite Digital Save A Battery brands. The algorithm of Battery Minder and Pulse Tech do seem to be better at reducing sulfation or whatever and improve performance. I had batteries that were declining, in spite of daily use of a battery tender that improved when switching to using a Battery Minder (2012 or 128CEC2). I have one of the Battery Minder wall wart units from Harbor Freight, it is a 1 amp unit and so small, I think they are really best for long term use, not for overnight, as you found, they can take quite a while to reach float charge.
What I have learned with using the Battery Minders longer term, is they need to operate on the float mode for weeks at a time to "restore" a sulfated battery. When I switched my two declining batteries to Battery Minder, these are on daily drivers, so I plugged them in every night for three months and they regained over 150 CCA capacity. Even the Battery Minder instructions state their desulfate does not work overnight...it takes weeks, as it is a gentle process.
If you are only using your Battery Minder to recharge the battery, it is not getting a chance to desulfate. Leave it on as much as possible. I would get a larger unit if possible, like a 2012 which is 2 amps, it will usually reach float mode in four hours on my cars. The 128CEC2 is selectable 2, 4, 8 amps but they recommend the 4 amp for multiple batteries (which is how I use it) and the 8 amp setting for Odyssey batteries.
As far as Optima red top batteries...they used to be awesome (used them for 20 years), but I went through three of them over 5+ years, each started leaking, though the batteries performance was still excellent. I no longer use or recommend Optima red tops. I hear their plate type yellow batteries are fine, but I am just done with the brand.
I have had good luck the past few years with Clarios AGMs (Interstate, AC Delco or Walmart), mostly the German and Korean made ones.