Attended a really neat funeral and graveside for a friend today

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This gentleman was a very well known farmer and Modot employee in our rural area. One of those people that the saying goes “if you met him you knew him”. He passed in a oil distributor truck crash last week.

Visitation was Sunday evening, the funeral director said they had over 1200 people sign the book and in reality probably many more actually were there. For perspective that’s nearly the population of our town. It took me two and a half hours to get through the church.

Funeral was Monday and while I am usually able to get through something like this with no emotion, this was my first service with a firefighters last call(he was a volunteer fire chief) it was incredibly hard listening to it. The precession was led by local deputies and the Missouri Highway Patrol with the hearse and family escorted by Modot trucks and fire engines from his company. I put my dump truck in the precession as he had stopped by often to see it and offer advice during the build. Tractors and equipment with flags lined the highway from our town where the service was to his hometown cemetery. At the cemetery they brought in his personal tractors and parked them around the tent while other locals brought in multiple tractors and parked around the perimeter.

On arrival they transferred the casket from the hearse prior to entering the cemetery to a hay wagon pulled by a side by side for the final ride to the tent. The pallbearers rode the wagon with him.
 

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Young man, great American- so very tragic. Leaving a Wife and three children behind..... Very sad. Along with many family and friends.... Almost in tears reading the obituary....
It’s a rough one for sure. Caught us all by total surprise. His parents and my mother went through school together and spent many weekends at my grandparents house. The family is taking it as expected but has a support system that you couldn’t dream of. He was definitely the definition of a man from small town USA.
 
My condolences to you, his surviving family and your community.

I swear this post was, "The third bad news in my life today regarding a tragedy" (you know how they come in 'threes')
 
Sorry to hear this. My condolence's.

I remember hearing last call for my grandfather (from the fire dept), he got a free tour of Europe (starting in North Africa, then Italy, then Germany) and for some reason I thought that was more moving than the gun salute.

Last summer I had to say goodbye to a friend. Pretty sure when he turned 21 he didn't say "**** so this is what middle age feels like?" Sobering.
 
"Show your love for him by wearing a John Deere, Carhartt, Cardinals, Chiefs, or Dadeville t-shirt to the services."

I have to move some wood this afternoon and the first thing I do when I hop on the old Deere is say a prayer for that man's family.

Thank you for sharing.
 
He sounds like he was a great guy. I like small towns that cling together and know each other. I live in a big city but like the rural small town living. Thanks for sharing.
 
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