A very thumbnail approximation here... Rotational stresses are typically influenced by the square of rotational velocity. Assuming the engine would have been rotating at 2000 RPM if driven normally, then the car was experiencing about 525% more stress at 5000 RPM.
2000 squared is 4 million. 5000 squared is 25 million. 100 x (25 - 4) / 4 = 525; therefore stress at 5k RPM is 525% more than at 2k RPM.
or, since 25 / 4 = 6.25, during that 50 minutes, she wore-out the engine 6.25 times as much by driving at 5000 RPM vs 2000 RPM.
Finally, these are 1st order approximations. Most likely, some engineer-type is going to nit-pic this. ... Yes, I'm well aware there are a whole host of coefficients to be applied here but as I said, these are first-order approximations. Aside from that, my 40 year old physics degree trumps your engineering degree -buzz off.
Ray
PS: If this were my wife's car, I'd change the oil just to be on the safe side.